我是女生,19岁, – I’m a 19 year old woman…

我是女生,19岁,快大二了。我现在的男朋友是从小的青梅竹马,他大我三岁。从前我们互相暗恋,但由于家庭原因,父母的误会,两人不得不被迫断开联系。从刚开始的愤怒难过到后来的认命,十几年我们都没有联系。我也有了高中喜欢的人。一次偶然的原因,他来车站接了我一次,见到了我的变化,从淘气的小女孩到温柔爱笑的女生。本来以为他应该也有女朋友,后来才知道他那时大三了还没有恋爱过。有女生追过他,但他都拒绝了。过了一阵,他打电话给我告白,说试试看在一起吧。那时觉得太唐突了,太惊讶了,毕竟十几年没见,我们都不了解对方。思考了几天还是拒绝了。后来他大四,我大一,我们保持着兄妹的关系。每一次接到他的电话我都特别开心,他的稳重幽默感染着我,慢慢的爱上他了。他快毕业时叫我去他的学校逛逛,我答应了。晚上他轻轻吻了我,说他一直想把我当个妹妹,但他发现他做不到。我被他打动了,和他在一起了。我妈妈和他爸爸都支持我们恋爱。现在他毕业工作了,我还是学生。和他在一起2个月,他提出过和我ml,但我觉得太早了。看到他失望的表情我也好纠结。我还是处,想把初夜留在新婚的时候,但是又怕他觉得我不够信任他。我很珍惜这段感情,觉得我们会走到最后的。大家觉得我的决定是对的么?

I’m a girl, 19 years old, almost a sophomore in college. My current boyfriend, who’s 3 years older than I am, was my childhood friend from a young age. We had a crush on each other then, but because of family reasons, a misunderstanding between our parents, we had no choice but to break off contact. From anger and sadness at first, until later when we accepted our fate, we had no contact for more than 10 years. I also had someone a liked in high school. One time by chance he came to pick me up at the station and saw how I had changed. I had gone from a naughty little girl to a warm, loving, smiling young woman. Originally, I mistakenly believed that he must have a girlfriend, but later I found out that he was in his 3rd year of university, and he still had not fallen in love. There had been girls chasing after him, but he refused them all. After a while, he called me to say something, which was that we should being with each other. At that time, I thought it was too presumptuous, too surprising, after all we hadn’t seen each other in more than 10 years, and didn’t really know each other at all. After thinking for a few days, I refused. Later, when he was a senior in college and I was a freshman, we maintained a brother-sister relationship. Every time I got a call from him, I felt especially happy. His steady humor was infectious, and slowly I fell in love with him. When he was about to graduate, he asked me to go visit him at his university, and I agreed. That night he gently kissed me, and said that he had always tried to think of me as a little sister, but he discovered he couldn’t do it. I was moved by him, and we started dating. My mom and his dad both supported our relationship. Now, he has graduated and is working, and I’m still a student. When we had been together 2 months, he proposed, but I thought it was too early. When I saw his disappointed face, I was quite undone myself. 我还是处,想把初夜留在新婚的时候,but I was also afraid he would feel that I didn’t trust him. I really treasure this feeling, and thought we might get through to the end. Do you all think my decision was right?

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August 3, 2018 at 5:12 am

Original translation by Ntantzen

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